How to Communicate effectively in a relationship
Remember, the aim of mirroring is to hear and be heard. We connect best with people when we validate their feelings. This is because one of the things that unify us is our ability to feel and show compassion. Our thoughts, experiences and choices in life may be very different but we share the common experience of pain, fear, anger, disappointment love, excitement and peace. This is what enables us to identify with people. So when we try and validate another’s feelings without including our own experience we are likely to be accused of patronizing him or her , this leave someone feeling “put down” or “inferior” And it does Not increase ones desire to want to communicate!
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