Signs of Toxic In Laws and How to Manage Them

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Most of us never dream that one day we will have toxic in-laws to deal with. When we first think about getting married, the idea of joining two families together is very exciting.

You can't wait to say "I do" and officially have new parents who you want to call "mom and dad".

Unfortunately, not everyone is able to experience a joyous blending of two families and often find themselves frustrated and angry at certain aspects and interactions with their in-laws.

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Having toxic in-laws can be very hard to deal with, and disappointing. When in-laws start to become a negative aspect of your life, that is when it is getting toxic.

Relationships with in-laws are quite complicated. Every family is different in terms of the type of relationship people have with their in-laws, but the idea of acceptance seems to be common throughout.

If you have a wonderful relationship with your in-laws and like them a lot, consider yourself lucky! That is not the story for many people, however.

It is important to be able to spot the signs of having toxic in-laws so you know how to address the issue.

Signs of Toxic In-Laws

1. They are overly involved in your decisions

2. They try to turn you and your significant other against you

3. Your privacy as a couple is not respected

4. They say negative things about you to your significant other

5. They ignore you

6. They make insulting comments

Solution to Toxic In-Laws

1. Always remember that you and your significant other are a team

2. Both you and your spouse address issues to your own parents; don't confront the in-laws

3. Take appropriate space when needed

4. Set boundaries

5. Don't insult your in-laws in front of your spouse; be respectful

No matter what, it is important to remember that you and your significant other are a unit, and should be united together as your own family.

It is important to take care of yourself if you have toxic in-laws, which ultimately help protect the relationship from harm that could arise if you did not take steps to address it appropriately.

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